There are no blue prints to decipher someone’s love for you, as humans have the propensity to hide their feelings; the female folks especially. However, there are some signs you should watch out for to know if he/she really loves you. Mind you, infatuation could be lurking around your findings. You should therefore weigh your options well and decipher between love and the other.

Love have different meanings to different people, you should be concerned with the what the person you claim to love talks, reacts and think.

1. See if the person can act naturally around you. Being in love entails openness to the third party. If you notice the person you claim to love or loves you shows you a different side from what the general public knows, it’s evident that the person loves you.
2. Weigh the level of happiness they display around you. He/she cannot profess to love you if he/she is never happy when you are around. Your lover would always be happy to have you around.  Even after you’re gone, s/he would want to have you around forever.
3. Watch out for giddiness of the person around you. This is a feeling of being light around someone. If s/he always seems everything funny in what you do, that is a sign. Giddiness is a silly feeling induced my love where you feel weightless and happy around your loved one
4. See if the person is optimistic about your collective future. If s/he doesn’t love you, s/he would not waste his/her precious time discussing a bright future with you, using collective pronouns like “we, us, our” and so on.

If you see any of these and some other, congratulations, you are being loved.

PS: When in love, carry your head with your heart. The heart can be dumb, but correct yourself with your head, so you don’t do silly things for love.