Insecurity is a feeling of uncertainty, being in love with someone sharing intimate stuff with them isn’t easy, loving is trusting and being vulnerable. A relationship should be a safe zone where you’re able to express yourself without holding back. If this isn’t the case, there might be a problem. Insecurity may be a signal of co- dependency, however it is no longer love.
Love is a sense of bliss and contentment, that drives you in a completely effective zone. It makes your thoughts unfastened from all fears. Insecurity or emotional lack of confidence is a situation where human beings sense fearful or uneasy feeling that they are not as good as a person or something. Most time it could be triggers through a confrontation or an argument. It makes one doubt their person or ego.
Insecurity is what we all feel at some unspecified time in their life. But it doesn’t have to weigh down your intellectual state. People who find it difficult to overcome their insecurities should go for counselling.
Signs you’re in a relationship with an insecure partner:
1: When your partner feels jealous when you are with your friends constantly. The person just needs all your attention to feel special, that isn’t nice.
2: They never accept they are wrong, they don’t take criticism, they always want to be right everytime.
3: They don’t believe anything you say, they always think you’re keeping something from them.
4: They are controlling.
5: They stalk you on social media, they accused of you replying certain messages and chats.
6: They accuse you of cheating constantly just because they are insecure.
7: They need constant validation.
All of your insecurities in a relationship begin in your head. Insecurity is a sign of low self esteem, your mind have an effect on your feelings, and your feelings have an effect on your moves. Stop those emotions early before they get the best of you. In all get a therapist or psychologist if it’s out of control.