Single people get stigmatized quite often because they don’t have a partner who sends them romantic cards, or mushy text messages. It’s easy to spot that single colleague at the office from those that are married.

Being single can be sad these days, everywhere online you see bridal showers, proposals, booed up pictures, and you crave for a partner.

Many people believe single people are miserable, which isn’t true. The truth is, it’s totally normal to be single. It’s a phase every human must pass through, and it’ll have an effect on you, either positive or negative.

Many even think there must be something wrong with them if they are single, why can’t you just allow that phase shape you into something better. Why not just use that time to work on your Emotional intelligence, Your communication skills etc.

There has been research and I discovered some truth about single people.

1: Single people actually spend more time with their family, friends and loved ones. Unlike married couples who tend to isolate themselves once they start building their own families, even when kids aren’t in the picture.

2: They have more time to develop strong friendship. One of the most amazing thing about being single is spending quality time with your friends. Being single increases your social connection.

3: When it comes to personal life choices,  they tend to decide for themselves. Like what to wear, eat. They can decide to spend days at home with their phones off and not bother about anyone. They think about what matters to them and go for it.

When you’re single, you should enjoy that phase and not be swayed by whatever is going on online. Being single,  isn’t a drawback, it’s about self discovery and finding what makes you thick At the end, happiness comes from within it doesn’t matter if you’re single or married, the most important thing is choosing to be HAPPY no matter the circumstances.